Livre d'Or

Thanks for commenting. I know what you mean about avoiding organized stuff; I think that's part of my hesitation about plunging myself into the Bi and / or Queer community and scene.

I completely sympathize with the head hurting, minefieldy thing. I honestly don't think that being closeted means you're a coward; nearly everybody I know who makes that decision has a good reason for it, and you're certainly no exception.