Not that kind of girl

Recently, I've been finding myself saying "I don't think of myself as the kind of person who..." Chatting to blue_mai at the weekend made me step back and think about whether that's actually a useful way to look at things.

( on the whole, no )

I think what I'm groping for is that I want to accept that some aspects of my self-image may be wrong or just simply out of date. But also that it's possible to do things and join groups I never expected I'd do or join, without that compromising the things that fundamentally make me who I am. It's a bit confusing, though!