Witches

Mar. 7th, 2024 06:34 pm
liv: In English: My fandom is text obsessed / In Hebrew: These are the words (words)
Hello DW, it's been a while. This term has had way, way less drama than last, but on the other hand I still don't have stable accommodation in London. My cousin, who is extremely lovely, is very politely intimating that I've already been staying in her spare room quite a lot longer than originally agreed, so I am in the midst of arranging to be a lodger for part of the week with a stranger, in exchange for money rather than relying on goodwill.

Anyway, I want to tell you about this weekend. On Thursday it was mine and [personal profile] jack's third actual wedding anniversary, but on Friday I had to go to Paris for college reasons. soppy and travel )

The thing I wanted to pull out from this experience was that the guide was pretty convinced that the fantasy image of a witch is based on antisemitic stereotypes. The last time I came across this theory was a weird controversy on Tumblr some years ago, where some people were very vocally insistent that you shouldn't write witches in your fantasy settings because that's antisemitic, and others were pointing to this an example of just how ridiculous Tumblr's social justice culture is. At the time I kind of rolled my eyes at the idea that fairytale witches are antisemitic, I mean, sure, they have big noses, but loads of cultures claim that their despised minority or othered group has big noses, that's too generic to be meaningful. But on the other hand, I was strangely comforted because Tumblr in the height of the SJW era was just about the only online community I've been part of where it's actually considered bad to be antisemitic. Anywhere that neglects moderation will be full of far right griefers who are still recycling the same stereotypes from Crusader-era Jew-hate filtered through the Protocols of the Elders of Zion, when not spreading outright neo-Nazi propaganda. Anywhere with a progressive or lefty bent will assume that antisemitism isn't a real issue because Jews are white and middle-class and anyway Israel is evil. (Mastodon, which I like in principle, is particularly annoying for doing both of those at once.)

But the guide made a somewhat convincing case: Jews were forced by Christian anti-Jewish edicts to wear pointed hats. Jews usually had several precious old books in their homes written in foreign script when most of the population weren't literate even in French, and furthermore often kept cats to protect said grimoires from mice. Plus the big noses and the stealing children thing, and arguably allowing more freedom and economic power to women than most of the surrounding culture in some parts of Europe. So I suppose there could be a connection.

I also feel weird about the witches thing because of the Burning Times meme, and the debunking of same. Because historically Jews, and Christians with Jewish ancestry or who protected Jews, were in fact burned as an act of religious persecution, and there were mass burnings of Jewish books. So were other people, particularly Christians from minority sects, and some probably mentally ill people as Janega points out. And I definitely don't want to play oppression Olympics here; there absolutely are contexts where Jews have at least conditional legal protection and social acceptance in ways that Pagans do not. But TERFs claiming to be witches and decent people pointing out that mass burning of witches never actually happened, both leave me in a slightly awkward spot.

(PS I am not interested in arguing about whether antisemitism is really just legitimate criticism of Israel, or whether anti-Zionism is antisemitic. Both angles on that just promote misery and not useful conversation at all.)

Holiday

Jun. 12th, 2023 02:31 pm
liv: In English: My fandom is text obsessed / In Hebrew: These are the words (words)
I went to Winchester with [personal profile] jack, with the excuse of running a service and we decided to expand it into a long weekend break.

what I did on my holidays )

Holiday

Jun. 20th, 2021 04:06 pm
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Last summer I didn't do much because I didn't really believe the pandemic was over. This summer I know for sure it's not over, but the start of the third wave is the least bad time to have fun before everything closes down again. So [personal profile] jack and I booked a self-catering place in north Norfolk, for the week before the day slated for removing all restrictions.

perfect holiday )
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I had a marvellous time at the big German goth festival, WGT, 4 years ago. And it seemed like a good idea to return this year and converge with [personal profile] ghoti_mhic_uait on her travels. Actually it wasn't a very good idea; the travellers are trying to do things cheaply and didn't want to get festival tickets, and going to Leipzig while the goth festival is on but not participating was not actually very sensible.

However, I don't entirely regret going travels )

Anyway, it was extremely lovely to spend some time with [personal profile] ghoti_mhic_uait and the children, and seeing New Model Army was well worth the travel.

Travels

May. 28th, 2019 07:26 pm
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I've ended up spending almost half of May away from home, which is great for having a wonderful time with people I love in interesting places, but not so great for updating DW.

what I did on my holidays )

Relaxation

Feb. 24th, 2019 09:24 pm
liv: oil painting of seated nude with her back to the viewer (body)
This week I took a couple of days off work, mainly so I could organize a treat for [personal profile] jack.

diary )

Since we got back we've played a couple more games of Terraforming Mars, which we're borrowing from OSOs while they're away, and one of Scythe which we're still hooked on. And I think we both feel better for a break specifically dedicated to relaxing.
liv: In English: My fandom is text obsessed / In Hebrew: These are the words (words)
So the Progressive community I used to work with in Stockholm have been working on a siddur for 10 years. Which means they started when I was still living there. And when they completed it they invited me to come and help them celebrate the siyyum.

religion and travel )

I didn't take pictures, but by fortunate coincidence [personal profile] nanila was there at the same time and visited many of the same areas, and is a pretty great photographer. Check out her pictures of central Stockholm and Skansen.

It's hard to describe how happy I am to get a chance to go back, to have such a perfect weekend with people I love. I miss Stockholm a lot, and I feel very good being reminded that it's still there. And my Progressive community isn't just still there, but growing and developing and thriving, and full of people who are just really happy to see me. Andreas wondered if I'm famous, based on the reception I got. I said 'locally famous', but basically I'm just really well liked there, and that's a precious thing.
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Last year I didn't manage to have a proper summer holiday at all, since I was in the middle of changing jobs and moving across country. So this year [personal profile] jack encouraged me to get my act together and actually go away for a week with no plan other than to be tourists.

I ended up picking the Channel Islands, mainly based on browsing The Man in Seat Sixty-One and looking for cool places we could go without flying. So we had most of a week exploring Guernsey, with a couple of days in Jersey at the end, and it was delightful.

what I did on my holidays, including images, and some mention of historical Nazis )

So yes, that was a lot of fun, and a very good mixture of learning cool new stuff and relaxing. I was right to prioritize spending time in Guernsey; I did that partly because of the book I love which is set there, The book of Ebenezer Le Page by GB Edwards. But Guernsey seemed a much more distinct place, whereas Jersey just seems like any old prosperous south coast town, albeit with some really lovely vistas. I almost wish we'd stayed on Guernsey and taken trips to the smaller islands in its Bailiwick, and skipped Jersey altogether. Not that I regret what we did do, I had a really lovely time, and it was so nice to spend lots of uninterrupted time with my husband.

Holiday I

Aug. 5th, 2018 03:51 pm
liv: Table laid with teapot, scones and accoutrements (yum)
I have had such a lovely week! visits and travel; CN: historical Nazis )

Legoland

Jun. 3rd, 2018 09:34 pm
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My amazing partners planned a trip to Legoland! It's the kind of thing I probably wouldn't have considered without encouragement; I'm not really a theme park person, and it's about 5 times more money than I'd usually expect to spend on a holiday. But it was an absolutely wonderful experience and I'm really glad I am in a relationship with people who do trips like that.

what I did on my holidays )

Basically it was just purely enjoyable from start to finish, and I'm really glad I got the experience. I am not sure whether I'll go back; probably not very often, because it was worth the money once but I would probably rather either do something cheaper or something completely new. And at some point I may get round to sorting out photos so I can post some, but if I held up until then I'd never actually put the post up, so.
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That was not the Worldcon I would have liked; I'd hoped to do as several of my friends did, and travel overland and explore some of the region. Or at least to really get immersed in the con itself. And I'd have liked a proper holiday with my partners and their children, which hasn't really happened this year though we've had a few short breaks.

In reality I was only able to go for the long weekend. I spent an eye-watering amount of money on a trip that didn't quite work for me, between flights, accommodation, Worldcon membership (when I actually only ended up attending for half a day), and just general living expenses in a not very well planned trip to an expensive city. It feels churlish to complain about being in a position to spend a bit too much on a less than perfect trip, and in many ways it was good, just not quite what I'd hoped for.

more details )

Mishaps

Oct. 25th, 2016 06:31 pm
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[personal profile] cjwatson is working in The Hague for a bit, and since it overlaps with half term Ghoti was able to take all their children to join him. And [livejournal.com profile] fivemack and I came out for just the weekend in the middle. In a trip lasting less than two days, I managed to trip over a kerb and fall flat on my face, bending my glasses out of shape and cutting my cheek. There was a probably expensive (unless it can be sorted out) muddle over paying for the hotel. I had a really bad coughing fit in the middle of the night which triggered me back to childhood when my asthma wasn't well medicated. The food court where we were eating caught on fire and we had to evacuate. Plus lots of the usual tribulations of travelling with a large group and trying to keep everybody fed and hydrated enough to be functional.

I had a totally wonderful time even so, and I'm extremely glad I went. what I did on the weekend )

Yesterday I left after a late and leisurely breakfast and had a very easy journey to get in in good time to run the Simchat Torah service at shul for a scant minyan, and nobody younger than my about to be bar mitzvah student. Even though travelling out on Shabbat and returning on the festival day is not how I want to be, it was really good for me to get a proper break after the intensity of the festival season. And a weekend away, even if it was a bit rushed, will help renewing my enthusiasm for work now we're a month into the term. But mostly it was wonderful to be able to join in with part of my loves' adventure.
liv: Table laid with teapot, scones and accoutrements (yum)
[livejournal.com profile] ghoti planned us a group trip to Budapest, all of us, her three children and four partners. Which to me sounds like a terrifying amount of organization, but basically she booked budget flights and rented us a huge, cheap, centrally located apartment that normally trades on stag and hen parties. And then she got everybody to the airport in plenty of time, with some notion of how to get across the city from the airport, and after that we basically just turned up and improvised.

In almost all respects that worked better than the sorts of holidays I'm used to with detailed itinerary planning, and long complicated negotiations about sharing space with people who aren't normally housemates. We didn't have the slightest ambition to see "everything", we just wanted to have a good time together in a new city, and that was incredibly successful. I mean, it's easy to say that it was low effort considering that my gf put in most of the effort and I just tagged along, but I wouldn't have contemplated organizing a trip of that size and complexity, I would have just assumed it was beyond me, but partly because planning I'd have considered essential is actually entirely disposable.

[livejournal.com profile] ghoti was also much better at writing up the trip than I am, she did so promptly and concisely; my version is likely to be rambly and boring. tourist report )

So basically, [livejournal.com profile] ghoti was an amazing genius at organizing a holiday that was fun and exciting and full of interesting new experiences without being exhausting. And at taking into account the wishes of such a large and mixed group and making sure that everybody had the best possible time.

Budapest is shadowed by genocide )
liv: Table laid with teapot, scones and accoutrements (yum)
Next week I'm travelling to Hungary, a country I've never visited before. We (well, mostly [livejournal.com profile] ghoti) planned the essential bits, the travel and accommodation, months ago, but it's come up faster than I'd expected and I haven't had time to think about what we're actually going to do there. It doesn't really matter since we're a party of six adults and two children, so I'm sure other people will have ideas, but I thought I might ask for advice anyway.

I made you some ticky boxes )

Ireland!

Jul. 4th, 2016 11:46 pm
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I had a completely glorious time in Ireland last week. travelogue )

Basically, thank you so much to all of you for good advice, we did much better by listening to you than by trying to plan the trip off websites and guidebooks. And you were all collectively right about roads and driving. Also thank you to everybody who asked for a postcard, and to [livejournal.com profile] ghoti for recommending me the app. It turned out to really increase my enjoyment of the trip; [livejournal.com profile] darcydodo brought a real camera, but I just had my phone. It was really good for me to have the motivation to take the occasional snap of something I really wanted to send to one of you, but to spend most of my time looking at things with my eyes rather than being distracted by photography. I missed lots of you, [personal profile] hatam_soferet when we were looking at manuscripts, and [personal profile] forestofglory when we were learning about ecology, and [personal profile] kaberett when we were being amazed by geology, and [personal profile] lethargic_man when we were trying to figure out language stuff. And my musicians and historians and Christians pretty much all the time.
liv: A woman with a long plait drinks a cup of tea (teapot)
[livejournal.com profile] ghoti asked: could you tell us about your favourite places outside the UK?

This is going to be brief, cos it's ended up on a Friday and I never have more than half an hour spare on Fridays. I've been to plenty of beautiful and historic places, but I put a much higher priority on visiting friends than on being a tourist. So I'm most likely to get excited about the home town of someone I love, especially when it's far away enough that I probably wouldn't have the time and energy to go there except to visit them. I think the top two in that category are Melbourne in Australia, and Montréal in Canada.

Neither really has the kind of must-see tourist destinations that the most beautiful old-world cities have, nothing to compare with Paris or Florence or Jerusalem. But they are places I could imagine myself living, not just ticking the sights off my bucket list. They are big cities with plenty going on culturally, but feel much more spacious and less crowded than London or New York. Partly because they're less densely populated in a literal sense, but partly because they have sensible public transport infrastructure and a somewhat European-like café culture, you don't feel like everybody's constantly in a hurry and shoving you out of the way. I love that they're multicultural and don't seem, at least to my visitor's eyes, horribly segregated by race or economics. Both have an amazing range of really good food available.

I mean, the climate is hopeless, Melbourne regularly has summer temperatures above 40°C and Montréal has several months of unbearable humidity and winters that are terrifying even to someone who lived in Sweden. But basically everywhere that isn't the UK has a worse climate than the UK. And I love the mix of new world and imported European flora. Melbourne just smells amazing!

The main reason I love Melbourne is that my very good friend MK lives there, as does my mother's brother, with their respective families. And likewise I love Montréal because [livejournal.com profile] rysmiel lives there, and I have had the most amazing visits with them. And just last year [personal profile] hatam_soferet moved there too so now I love it even more!

[December Days masterpost]
liv: alternating calligraphed and modern letters (letters)
[personal profile] ceb asked me, and lots of our mutual friends, What's your favourite museum? It's a really interesting question, because a museum is not the kind of thing most people have a stock favourite, and I've been finding other people's answers really informative.

So anyway, I will consider art galleries separately, because I have a prompt for later on to talk about art. Aside from great art collections well displayed, what I most like in a museum is that it should show me how things work. If I wanted purely factual information, I'd probably rather get it from just reading a book. And I can like collections of physical objects, but they have to be exceptionally curated, just objects with captions ends up feeling like I'm leafing through a catalogue. I mean, I had a soft spot for the old Pitt Rivers museum in Oxford, for precisely the way it was hardly like a museum at all, more like wandering around in the attic of an eccentric hoarder relative. And the new Pitt Rivers is amazing, because it's basically a museum about the kind of awful anthropology museum it used to be, a collection of artefacts, including human remains and sacred objects, that nineteenth century colonialists felt completely entitled to pilfer from anywhere in the world.

But more generally what I like in (non-art) museums is that they have working equipment and explain technology. Needs to be real or realistic replica machines; I don't go to museums to press buttons and watch dated CGI. I especially like the kinds of museums that are built right in the factories or other working places they are about. The north of England is a very good place for museums like that, and we went to some on our honeymoon, near some of the first factories built in the entire world. I also love reconstructed habitations, and I have very fond memories of visiting Sovereign Hill gold mining town near Ballarat in Australia, which demonstrates both how the mining technology worked and how people lived during that era.

If I have to pick just one favourite in this genre, I will go for Verdant works in Dundee. It really does show you clearly how the jute industry worked, including working replica machines (originally used for training engineers IIRC from a visit 10 years ago) which allow you to follow every stage of the process from fibre to fabric. And it explains how people lived in Dundee and the political and economic implications of the jute trade and its decline. I learned there about how a young Churchill was sent to talk down the uppity women's suffragists in a town that had almost total female employment (and almost zero male employment). It's run by enthusiasts, mostly retired people who worked in the jute industry during their working lives, and they're dedicated to detail at the level of scouring Europe for exactly the right kind of early tungsten bulbs so that the illumination would be period-appropriate. I still have my spool of jute thread and my little corner of jute sacking that I watched being made on the machines there, it smells gorgeous, but it's mainly something I just love as a souvenir of my time in Dundee.

So, many thanks for asking an excellent question, [personal profile] ceb!

[December Days masterpost]
liv: A woman with a long plait drinks a cup of tea (teapot)
I am really enjoying this daily prompt meme, and one of the reasons is because [personal profile] ephemera has come up with several really excellently thinky prompts. This is particularly great because [personal profile] ephemera's DW schedule is just enough out of synch with mine that I quite often don't get to her comments, but the longer time scale of putting up a post soliciting prompts a couple of weeks ahead of filling them has worked really well. Anyway, one of [personal profile] ephemera's excellent suggestions was: you have a month of leave and an unlimited travel budget - where do you go?

imaginary voyage )

[January Journal masterlist. Anyone want the last empty slot?]
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I am going to write about my Canadian trip in list form, because otherwise I'm not going to get round to doing it at all. [personal profile] jack managed more of a proper post, which is probably more interesting for most people to read.

I may be a little too fond of bulleted lists )
And, while I'm making lists, here are some of the sources that came up in conversation during the visit, which might be interesting more generally.
Links:
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Specifically, I'm travelling from Montreal to Toronto on a remarkably civilized conveyance which has roomy, comfortable seats, and free wifi, and my return ticket for the 300 mile journey cost less than what I usually pay for the Stoke to London train which is half the distance and far less pleasant an experience. The view is not the most interesting I've seen on a long train journey, but I'm enjoying the subtly different flora and landscape that make me feel on holiday. It's a misty early autumn day, with the famous North American fall colours just starting to show. Mostly brackens near the ground that are really bright, the deciduous trees are just barely starting to be tinged. The range I expect in the yellow-orange-brown part of the spectrum here extends well into red, including a sort of purply red I've rarely seen before.

how I got here )

Basically I'm absurdly happy, I'm spending most of my waking hours bouncing and grinning and squeeing. Yay friends, yay pleasures both sensual and intellectual. Part of the reason for this Toronto / Niagara trip has been to give our friends a bit of a break from hosting us, and it's likewise giving me and [personal profile] jack a chance to sit and catch up with the internet for a few hours in between cramming dozens of different pleasures into each day of our holiday. I think I'm about back up to speed with my reading lists, but do let me know if anything momentous has happened in your life or the world while I've been out of time for 10 days. When I get back to England I'm going straight into leading festival services, and once those are done the new academic year will start and in general my life is going to be pretty full-on from next week until Christmas. Which is another reason to really make the most of this unusually luxurious summer break.

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