Other people's weddings

mobbsy and sonicdrift got married on Saturday. Many congratulations to both of you!

Now that jack and I have attended somebody else's wedding as a married couple, I think that marks the end of the newly-wed phase of our lives, and feels like a little mini-milestone after all the big milestones. Though it's surprisingly hard to turn off the part of my brain that has spent the last couple of years using other people's weddings as a source of ideas (to incorporate or reject) for our wedding. I don't want to let that turn into obsessively comparing everything either; I think the most useful conclusion is that mobbsy and sonicdrift made different decisions from us, and came up with a wedding that was as right for them as ours was for us.

( yay weddings )