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I think maybe (in the sense that I'm formulating a weakly held hypothesis) that your concept of "acceptance" is actually toxic, and you might get further on these issues if you set it aside and tackled them without recourse to it.

How about instead of trying to reimagine "acceptance" (and try to fix alternatives to that procrustean bed) what if you were just to ask, "how else could one approach this?"