Livre d'Or

It wasn't until I few years ago that I understood that for some people, gender identity was a Big Thing. (This was mostly sparked by a conversation with a trans* friend - we compared notes, but while they came to the conclusion that their identity is not the one on their birth certificate, I came to the conclusion that 'I don't identify as [gender], I'm an individual.' Which, I suppose, makes me genderqueer or genderfluid or genderagnostic or... something. (I haven't engaged with the terminology enough to pick one that fits me. I just thought I was a person who rejected strict gender roles.