Yay for a happy, healthy relationship for all of you, long may it continue in this vein.
One of those things that usually happens when people don't understand everything that goes on is that they reduce everything to bedroom arrangements.
Instead of asking about that, I'm more curious about how the relationship is structured - a lot of poly stuff we read is in a "primary-secondary" dynamic, but I'm pretty sure that's not the only way to do things, and that it's used as a way of getting to get poly to be more relatable to people who are otherwise in dyads.
If you can explain this in a privacy-protecting way, I'm curious to know.
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Date: 2015-11-13 02:52 am (UTC)One of those things that usually happens when people don't understand everything that goes on is that they reduce everything to bedroom arrangements.
Instead of asking about that, I'm more curious about how the relationship is structured - a lot of poly stuff we read is in a "primary-secondary" dynamic, but I'm pretty sure that's not the only way to do things, and that it's used as a way of getting to get poly to be more relatable to people who are otherwise in dyads.
If you can explain this in a privacy-protecting way, I'm curious to know.