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That sounds like a good idea, thank you. I'm generally able to be calm or at least project calmness in the moment, but I'm scared that can tip over into seeming cold or uncaring. It's like, I want to maintain a strong connection to the child, but also I want to protect myself from being swamped by the misery, and if the self-protection instinct dominates, I could be doing more harm than if I visibly get upset.