liv: Stylised sheep with blue, purple, pink horizontal stripes, and teacup brand, dreams of Dreamwidth (sheeeep)
[personal profile] liv
Here's the thing: a lot of people are about ready to leave LJ over the latest shenanigans. But they don't want to make the leap to Dreamwidth because, frankly, there isn't enough going on here. The site is smaller, so there are fewer posts, and fewer cool people to meet. And all their friends are on LJ, which is of course a self-perpetuating situation: if "everybody" is still on LJ, then there's a huge disincentive against moving, which means that everybody continues to be on LJ.

Lots of people have realized that the best way to address this issue is, well, creating content. Some people are organizing collective efforts to create more content. This is a great idea, except for one small problem: the people who are really good at organizing and creating content are mainly fandom. I have nothing at all against fandom, but I'm not really part of it, and I think that a lot of other people who feel similarly are being put off because they see DW as yet another clubhouse for the cool fandom kids.

But I am going to take a leaf from fandom's book: I'm going to cease sitting around complaining about how DW is too quiet. Instead I'm going to participate in creating content and drawing attention to the cool stuff that already exists. So, I propose a giant non-fandom friending meme (thanks, [personal profile] delight). If you would like find some new, interesting people to read, or make new friends, or just help highlight how much cool stuff there is on DW, please comment to this post.

You're welcome to say whatever you like, but here's a suggested template:
Your identity: doesn't have to be A/S/L, but anything that you think people should know about you to be able to decide whether they're likely to be interested in getting to know you.
What you are passionate about
How you use Dreamwidth
A link to a recent post of yours that is characteristic of your journal or writing style.
A link to a journal on Dreamwidth you think people might enjoy reading, even if they don't know the writer personally.

Footnote 1: Some people have moral or technical objections to Dreamwidth, or actively prefer LJ. That's totally cool with me – this post isn't addressed to you. I'm looking to involve people who would like to make the move, but are put off because there isn't enough to read or enough people to meet here. I am not at all proselytizing, in other words, just doing my bit to fix what I see as the biggest glaring problem with DW. Other people may see other problems, and I am not trying to fix those.

Footnote 2: If you are involved in fandom, you're extremely welcome to participate. Perhaps you'd like to meet someone who shares some of your less fannish interests. Or you are welcome to go and join in some of the more explicitly fandom-related activities going on instead.

I am going to post this now, rather than waiting until the official three-week fest, because I think now is while the iron is hot and people are motivated to move to a new site. But I'll link it again when the fest starts up on 26th April, around the one-year anniversary of Dreamwidth entering Open Beta. I don't have any strong opinions about the DW-only content thing, and you don't have to be participating in that to participate in this meme.

So, go forth and friend!

ETA: And if you like the idea, please link this post all over the place. Or make your own version, or whatever, but mainly spread the word as much as possible

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Date: 2010-03-20 04:13 am (UTC)
pinesandmaples: A picture of Ben Franklin on the side of a paper box in Philly. (Philly: Ben Franklin)
From: [personal profile] pinesandmaples
Your identity: Suzanne. Nearly 25. I am a city-dweller at heart, but I'm a senior at a college in the middle of freaking nowhere, PA. (Therefore, I am a little stir-crazy.) I'm in a long-distance marriage with fellow DW sheep [personal profile] rooibos. (Therefore, I am more than the usual amount of crazy.) I'm a queer, genderqueer ecumenical Christian with a social justice bent. (Therefore, I am quite content with my crazy.) There are a number of things about my identity that don't come up very often, but they do contribute to my context. For example, I'm kinky, in a life-style D/s relationship, a spinner and knitter, an RA at school, non-monogamous, a vegetarian, fat, mentally ill, the oldest of four children, dying to get out of the US for good, in health limbo, and the beneficiary of a late-in-life divorce. (That last one is a good story. Ask me about it sometime.)

What you are passionate about: I tend to get a little bent-up about the intersection of gay marriage and immigration. Yarn and the use thereof makes me hot and bothered. Reading books and doing crosswords are vital. Oh, and consent! Love consent. I'm also very vocal about women's colleges; and the devaluation of college degrees by over-extension of university good wishes. I'm that friend who says unpopular things because people need to hear them.

How you use Dreamwidth: I try to post things that are worth reading. Lately, it's been one-liners and short complaints about stupid choices people around me have made that impact me. Sometimes, I will wax poetic about how amazing life is. Sometimes, I get really bent-up about an issue. (The state of the world rips my heart out on a regular basis. I try to mourn without navel gazing.) I try to filter out a lot of the really painful parts of my life because I don't know how to comment on them gracefully.

A link to a journal on Dreamwidth you think people might enjoy reading, even if they don't know the writer personally: [personal profile] sofiaviolet is quite nice.

(no subject)

Date: 2010-03-20 04:22 pm (UTC)
rooibos: (Default)
From: [personal profile] rooibos
I think you should be my friend, for reals.

(no subject)

Date: 2010-03-20 04:27 pm (UTC)
pinesandmaples: Text only; reads "Not everything will be okay, but some things will." (us: rainbow)
From: [personal profile] pinesandmaples
Dork.

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Date: 2010-03-20 11:29 pm (UTC)
amadi: A bouquet of dark purple roses (Default)
From: [personal profile] amadi
Greetings from a queer kinky fat vegetarian from the SW corner of PA. *waves* I like the idea of saying unpopular things. I think I'd like to know you!

(no subject)

Date: 2010-03-20 11:42 pm (UTC)
pinesandmaples: A picture of Ben Franklin on the side of a paper box in Philly. (Philly: Ben Franklin)
From: [personal profile] pinesandmaples
Greetings from Chambersburg, population 17,500. I think your journal looks fab so access ahoy!

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Date: 2010-03-22 05:40 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] ex_pale698
Would you mind if I friend you? While I identify as ftm, one of my partners is genderqueer. I'm also kinky and in a D/s relationship. Other facts: 35, fat, interested in a vegetarian recipes, has some mental health quirks.

(no subject)

Date: 2010-03-23 02:16 am (UTC)
pinesandmaples: Text only; reads "Not everything will be okay, but some things will." (theme: cherry tree)
From: [personal profile] pinesandmaples
That sounds both tasty and delicious, Capt. All systems go.

(no subject)

Date: 2010-03-23 02:29 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] ex_pale698
Yay!

(no subject)

Date: 2010-03-25 09:10 pm (UTC)
msrainbow: (Lion)
From: [personal profile] msrainbow
I'm quite interested in the intersection of gay marriage and immigration (backstory: I'm a cisgendered lady Australian who married a cisgendered lady Canadian and we just submitted the paperwork for my permanent residency application).

Shall we be friends?

(no subject)

Date: 2010-03-27 02:43 am (UTC)
pinesandmaples: Text only; reads "Not everything will be okay, but some things will." (us: rainbow)
From: [personal profile] pinesandmaples
That sounds delightful! All systems go. Best of luck with your visa stuff!

(no subject)

Date: 2010-04-04 10:53 pm (UTC)
viklikesfic: avatar me w/ trans flag, spiky hair, gender unclear, fun punky glasses & sarcastic expression to go w/purple ironic halo (Default)
From: [personal profile] viklikesfic
Gay marriage and immigration! (Zomg I wrote a legal paper on that in the European context). Crosswords! Reading! You listed consent as a passion! Oh, you are definitely getting added :-D I also thumbs upped a lot of your identity stuff such as lifestyle D/s, non-monogamous, and vegetarian. Rock on.

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