I've started reading Neal Stephenson's Anathem. I'm about 200 pages in and so far nothing much has happened, though it's a fairly pleasant sort of nothing. But there's something about it which I'd characterize as self-indulgent, and it's reminding me of the tenor of some long-running internet discussions about social justice related stuff.
The common thread I've noticed among some people who identify with geek subcultures is that they think of themselves as totally free of prejudice, and also they experienced social exclusion as kids / teenagers (often to quite a severe extent), and therefore understand what it's like to part of an oppressed minority. Both these assumptions are partly true, but taking them as absolutely axiomatic in all circumstances leads to a lot of frustration.
Being free of prejudice seems to be partly to do with identifying as being very (or even completely) rational and objective. There's no rational reason why women should be inferior to men, people with darker skin should be inferior to people with lighter skin and so on, so your typical geek rejects these irrational prejudices. There's an ideal, and one that I have a lot of time for, of being meritocratic, and judging people only on their intelligence rather than superficial aspects of their appearance.
The problem is that things like culture aren't seen as objective facts, and indeed discrimination itself is assumed not to exist because it isn't rational. This means that geeks can be entirely accepting of people who differ in superficial characteristics in theory, but in practice, if the superficial characteristics have tangible practical consequences, this kind of geek gets into a panic because that makes it not superficial any more, whereas the theory has already dismissed the differences as superficial. For example, if it turns out that women are a rather less likely than men to find rape jokes funny, or object to being constantly subjected to images of hypersexualized "babes", then there must be something wrong with the women. No rational person (who, like me, was unaffected by them) would object to these things, and women are just like me, therefore they must be totally irrational in objecting!
The other problem with this attitude is that intelligence itself is a mixture of two things. One is in fact a superficial characteristic just like skin colour or height or whatever; intelligent people aren't inherently morally superior to people of low intelligence. The second is that there are behaviours that are often confused with intelligence, but are more reflections of social class than anything else. Things like being educated and knowledgeable, especially about areas that are considered prestigious (knowing a lot about sport or fashion isn't prestigious, knowing a lot about history or physics is). Things like being skilled in logical argument / rhetoric (at least as much a matter of training as innate intelligence). This is particularly noticeable when the topic is of purely intellectual interest to some people in the debate, but of personal, emotional impact to others; it's easy in this situation for geeks to assume that the second group are less rational or even less intelligent.
Of course, the holy grail of geekdom, being competent with computers and the internet, is only accessible to people who have enough money to afford computers and broadband subscriptions, and enough leisure time (or sufficiently indulgent bosses) to be able to spend many hours a week online. Now, it's true that these things are fairly, though not universally, accessible now, but people who have only been able to spend lots of time with computers and the internet for a few years rate as less intelligent, and therefore less worthy, than geeks who have been part of that culture for decades, and that's going back to a time when you had to have a lot of advantages in life to be online regularly.
The result of these assumptions about intelligence is that geeks often find themselves most comfortable surrounded by people from very similar backgrounds. It's still admirable, but not all that difficult, to respect diversity when it's largely variation between middle to upper-middle class, anglophone, educated, straight, white, not too severely disabled males. Of course there are geeks who don't completely fit that picture, and it's definitely a good thing that these people are welcome in geek circles, but the point is that most of them are people who can pretty easily act as if they did fit the standard geek profile. I very much count myself in that category; although I'm Jewish, the ways I'm Jewish mean that my lifestyle differs very little from that of a secular post-Christian, and I've experienced very little serious antisemitism, and my appearance doesn't really mark me as non-white. Although I'm bi, my presentation is such that I'm assumed to be straight and conventionally gendered. Indeed, although I'm female, many of my interests, my upbringing and my personality are those typically considered masculine. In fact I have so much in common with straight WASP male geeks that I am planning to marry one of their number!
The trouble is that people aren't always willing or even able to pretend that the things that make them different from the standard don't exist. This causes a surprising amount of friction. I think it's partly because any mention of difference can be read as accusing geeks of being prejudiced, which they're just axiomatically not. Another issue is that people may well not want to spend time, either online or in person, with people who treat them badly. The decision to avoid someone who makes you feel physically / sexually unsafe, or who constantly hurts you with racist micro-aggressions, is confused with shunning or ostracizing, and ostracizing is evil. Geeks who understand far too well how painful it is to be excluded from a social group, but don't have any direct personal experience of how painful it is to be subjected to misogyny, racism etc, may well end up creating an environment that is far more welcoming to bullies than their victims, even if they themselves are genuinely not sexist or racist or otherwise prejudiced. Part of it is putting too high a value on being "objective"; there's no merit, and much harm, in trying to have a neutral, balanced debate about whether certain groups of people are really human.
The other side of it is the belief that being bullied as a kid means you understand systematic oppression. It's almost always a mistake to compare one kind of prejudice and exclusion with another; the impulse to build on your own experiences to generate empathy is admirable, but it can easily be taken too far. Beyond that, though, there is a difference in kind, not just in degree, between bullied because you like D&D better than football, and being subjected to racism. One of the things that's bugging me about Anathem is that there is a group of people, the Ita, who are portrayed as being somewhere between Jews in pre-modern society, and highly excluded nerds. And some characters who are clearly supposed to be analogous to autistic / Asperger's spectrum people in this world. Between that and the whole setting where a certain style of rationalism and logical argument is literally elevated to the status of a religion, I'm feeling a little impatient with the book.
When I started thinking about this sense of irritation, I was reminded of a whole bunch of things which are annoying in similar ways: the absolutely painful, awful conversations that happen when Making Light tries to discuss racism or religion (even though in fact it's a pretty diverse community in terms of the declared identities of regular commenters). The stupid argument between the Overcoming Bias / Less Wrong crowd and some of the LJ social justice people about how racism and sexism are totally unimportant because they're not cognitive biases or logical fallacies. Some of the discussions around Among Others (not the book itself, just some of the smugness of its readers who seem to be using it to justify their sense of superiority over the mundanes). A lot of tiresome reductionist arguments about how there's no such thing as sexism because women on average have very slightly different brain structures from men, and obviously socially constructed gender is irrelevant because it's not "objective" like physical measurements of the brain are. Some of the annoying bits of New Atheism.
I think what I'm saying is that sometimes admirable working principles can lead to negative practical consequences. I hope that if I write this down it will help me to appreciate all the positive things about geek culture, without falling into the trap of feeling superior to non-geeks or thinking I am knowledgeable about stuff I'm really ignorant of! Or perhaps I'll just annoy everybody, I'm not sure.
The common thread I've noticed among some people who identify with geek subcultures is that they think of themselves as totally free of prejudice, and also they experienced social exclusion as kids / teenagers (often to quite a severe extent), and therefore understand what it's like to part of an oppressed minority. Both these assumptions are partly true, but taking them as absolutely axiomatic in all circumstances leads to a lot of frustration.
Being free of prejudice seems to be partly to do with identifying as being very (or even completely) rational and objective. There's no rational reason why women should be inferior to men, people with darker skin should be inferior to people with lighter skin and so on, so your typical geek rejects these irrational prejudices. There's an ideal, and one that I have a lot of time for, of being meritocratic, and judging people only on their intelligence rather than superficial aspects of their appearance.
The problem is that things like culture aren't seen as objective facts, and indeed discrimination itself is assumed not to exist because it isn't rational. This means that geeks can be entirely accepting of people who differ in superficial characteristics in theory, but in practice, if the superficial characteristics have tangible practical consequences, this kind of geek gets into a panic because that makes it not superficial any more, whereas the theory has already dismissed the differences as superficial. For example, if it turns out that women are a rather less likely than men to find rape jokes funny, or object to being constantly subjected to images of hypersexualized "babes", then there must be something wrong with the women. No rational person (who, like me, was unaffected by them) would object to these things, and women are just like me, therefore they must be totally irrational in objecting!
The other problem with this attitude is that intelligence itself is a mixture of two things. One is in fact a superficial characteristic just like skin colour or height or whatever; intelligent people aren't inherently morally superior to people of low intelligence. The second is that there are behaviours that are often confused with intelligence, but are more reflections of social class than anything else. Things like being educated and knowledgeable, especially about areas that are considered prestigious (knowing a lot about sport or fashion isn't prestigious, knowing a lot about history or physics is). Things like being skilled in logical argument / rhetoric (at least as much a matter of training as innate intelligence). This is particularly noticeable when the topic is of purely intellectual interest to some people in the debate, but of personal, emotional impact to others; it's easy in this situation for geeks to assume that the second group are less rational or even less intelligent.
Of course, the holy grail of geekdom, being competent with computers and the internet, is only accessible to people who have enough money to afford computers and broadband subscriptions, and enough leisure time (or sufficiently indulgent bosses) to be able to spend many hours a week online. Now, it's true that these things are fairly, though not universally, accessible now, but people who have only been able to spend lots of time with computers and the internet for a few years rate as less intelligent, and therefore less worthy, than geeks who have been part of that culture for decades, and that's going back to a time when you had to have a lot of advantages in life to be online regularly.
The result of these assumptions about intelligence is that geeks often find themselves most comfortable surrounded by people from very similar backgrounds. It's still admirable, but not all that difficult, to respect diversity when it's largely variation between middle to upper-middle class, anglophone, educated, straight, white, not too severely disabled males. Of course there are geeks who don't completely fit that picture, and it's definitely a good thing that these people are welcome in geek circles, but the point is that most of them are people who can pretty easily act as if they did fit the standard geek profile. I very much count myself in that category; although I'm Jewish, the ways I'm Jewish mean that my lifestyle differs very little from that of a secular post-Christian, and I've experienced very little serious antisemitism, and my appearance doesn't really mark me as non-white. Although I'm bi, my presentation is such that I'm assumed to be straight and conventionally gendered. Indeed, although I'm female, many of my interests, my upbringing and my personality are those typically considered masculine. In fact I have so much in common with straight WASP male geeks that I am planning to marry one of their number!
The trouble is that people aren't always willing or even able to pretend that the things that make them different from the standard don't exist. This causes a surprising amount of friction. I think it's partly because any mention of difference can be read as accusing geeks of being prejudiced, which they're just axiomatically not. Another issue is that people may well not want to spend time, either online or in person, with people who treat them badly. The decision to avoid someone who makes you feel physically / sexually unsafe, or who constantly hurts you with racist micro-aggressions, is confused with shunning or ostracizing, and ostracizing is evil. Geeks who understand far too well how painful it is to be excluded from a social group, but don't have any direct personal experience of how painful it is to be subjected to misogyny, racism etc, may well end up creating an environment that is far more welcoming to bullies than their victims, even if they themselves are genuinely not sexist or racist or otherwise prejudiced. Part of it is putting too high a value on being "objective"; there's no merit, and much harm, in trying to have a neutral, balanced debate about whether certain groups of people are really human.
The other side of it is the belief that being bullied as a kid means you understand systematic oppression. It's almost always a mistake to compare one kind of prejudice and exclusion with another; the impulse to build on your own experiences to generate empathy is admirable, but it can easily be taken too far. Beyond that, though, there is a difference in kind, not just in degree, between bullied because you like D&D better than football, and being subjected to racism. One of the things that's bugging me about Anathem is that there is a group of people, the Ita, who are portrayed as being somewhere between Jews in pre-modern society, and highly excluded nerds. And some characters who are clearly supposed to be analogous to autistic / Asperger's spectrum people in this world. Between that and the whole setting where a certain style of rationalism and logical argument is literally elevated to the status of a religion, I'm feeling a little impatient with the book.
When I started thinking about this sense of irritation, I was reminded of a whole bunch of things which are annoying in similar ways: the absolutely painful, awful conversations that happen when Making Light tries to discuss racism or religion (even though in fact it's a pretty diverse community in terms of the declared identities of regular commenters). The stupid argument between the Overcoming Bias / Less Wrong crowd and some of the LJ social justice people about how racism and sexism are totally unimportant because they're not cognitive biases or logical fallacies. Some of the discussions around Among Others (not the book itself, just some of the smugness of its readers who seem to be using it to justify their sense of superiority over the mundanes). A lot of tiresome reductionist arguments about how there's no such thing as sexism because women on average have very slightly different brain structures from men, and obviously socially constructed gender is irrelevant because it's not "objective" like physical measurements of the brain are. Some of the annoying bits of New Atheism.
I think what I'm saying is that sometimes admirable working principles can lead to negative practical consequences. I hope that if I write this down it will help me to appreciate all the positive things about geek culture, without falling into the trap of feeling superior to non-geeks or thinking I am knowledgeable about stuff I'm really ignorant of! Or perhaps I'll just annoy everybody, I'm not sure.
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Date: 2011-02-22 02:09 pm (UTC)That's an interesting view of them. I had assumed that the Ita were intended to be analogous to the eta of feudal Japan (assuming, at least, that my fiction-derived knowledge of feudal Japan is anything like reality), who were outcast from polite society due to doing jobs that were considered unclean. The analogy seemed pretty close to me, and the similarity of names made me think it must have been deliberate (combining eta with IT).
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Date: 2011-02-22 03:00 pm (UTC)I mean, the view we have of the world in Anathem is, essentially, an intentionally limited set of habits (of thought, of action and of other things), that being the viewpoint our viewpoint character has.
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Date: 2011-02-22 02:38 pm (UTC)I don't think it's necessarily a good idea to construct a severity scale like that. I got a lot of bullying at school for various reasons (see previous post), my black/white biracial nephew has been known to suffer racist abuse. Yet my nephew went to the local comp where my brother and sister went (and by and large seems to be getting on OK), and I was sent to a different secondary school for fear of what the bullies would do to me at said comp - in fact I was initially rejected from that school, and Dad had to make an appeal on pretty much those grounds. It's increasingly clear to me that the two are different, but systematic oppression isn't necessarily more of a problem than idiosyncratic oppression (maybe that's not the right word) in all cases, and treating it as if it is can be very invalidating.
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Date: 2011-02-23 08:59 am (UTC)I definitely don't want to invalidate anyone who has survived severe bullying, that's a truly horrible experience and can really shape your whole personality. I used a mocking tone to refer to people who think they know all about racism and that the solutions that worked for them to escape bullying will totally bring about post-racial Utopia and there's no need to pay any attention to people who actually experience racism. But that mocking tone was probably out of place in a context where it could have been taken to refer to victims of bullying in general, and I apologize for that.
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Date: 2011-02-22 02:42 pm (UTC)Likewise, I would agree about geeks. That being deliberately blind to superficial prejudices is a very, very good start, but that being unprejudiced against actual differences involves making an actual effort.
Like, step 1 is "not refusing to hire people in a wheelchair", which is a good start, but is far from sufficient, which is why step 2 is having a moral and legal obligation to go out and fit ramps, which isn't free, but is necessary to actually make some sort of claim to be non-prejudiced.
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Date: 2011-02-23 12:34 am (UTC)I either love his books or loathe them. I've not read Anathem yet, but I can't stand Quicksilver and Cryptonomicon had seriously annoying bits.
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Date: 2011-02-23 09:00 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2011-02-22 03:13 pm (UTC)I've not read Anathem and don't intend to; I saw it on someone's shelf and frankly, don't have time/energy for such a tome.
I do, however, think your post is spot-on when it comes to geek culture, and it's why I refuse to participate in it. I'll read what I want, whatever it comes from, and think what I want, but I don't think my childhood experiences have clued me in to what it is like to live under systematic oppression. They were just my childhood experiences. In a way, to make them something else denies me that uniqueness?
I also think that a sort of superficiality about supposedly not being prejudiced within one's own subculture just allows for more of an us/them worldview--and that's just not healthy, I don't think. I see a similar attitude in insular subcultures of all types, but I think that a lot of geeks are a bit more upfront about it, and really do see themselves as superior to those unlike themselves outside of their subculture.
(Uh oh, I suddenly feel a "why I don't go to cons" rant coming on again...)
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Date: 2011-02-23 12:54 am (UTC)On the other hand, I think most (if not all) subcultures find ways to think of themselves as superior to people not like them; our hobbies are better in some sense (whether that's claims of health or popularity or unpopularity or purity or normalcy or creativity… and the group that has in common that they went to a particular college is likely not to just say "we hang out together because we've been friends for 20 years" but find reasons why their college and classmates are better than the people from that other college across the river.
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Date: 2011-02-23 09:39 am (UTC)Good point about the negative sides of universalizing your own experiences. I can see the temptation, because it gives you the feeling you understand everybody, which is intoxicating (if naturally false!) But you may well be right that you lose uniqueness by thinking like that.
I also agree that there are several subcultures which share features, which are insular, elitist and base their identity on not being prejudiced without actually doing anything to address discrimination. Partly I didn't want to make the post so general as to be meaningless, and partly geeks talk about geekiness on the internet (almost by definition) so I have lots of data to go on.
Regarding Anathem, I don't particularly recommend it. The reason I'm reading it is that I got hold of it as an ebook, which makes it very good for reading in five minute chunks at the bus stop or while waiting for the kettle to boil. If it takes me several months to get through in five minute chunks, I don't really mind, I'm using it more as an anti-boredom device than something that is truly enlightening. This does at least get round the physical size issue, though.
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Date: 2011-02-22 03:39 pm (UTC)Also, this makes me even more inclined to argue for the use and promotion of good, recognisably robust and accessible qualitative research in explaining the impact of racism, sexism and other oppressions. There is a wealth of studies exploring the way social spaces frame and privilege certain kinds of interaction while discouraging others, and also about the hegemony of assumed truths around prejudice (eg no-one of my shared class and educational background is really racist, because we know better). There is also a lot of work across genres (history, biography, sociology) exploring the different power/knowledge/personality dynamics at play in particular small elite groups. I don't know if you agree, but I'd say that has a useful place in the uncomfortable ground you describe where the default position seems to be 'I can see no hard data on how this might have an effect on my social group and therefore it's not having one' which could also be unkindly characterised as 'but racism and sexism are scientific fallacies and we can't be having with things that are bad science and moreover we don't see visible bad effects of them around ourelves (it being very easy to ignore the way we benefit from them) and so therefore we will conclude that they are not relevant to or present in our social milieu, because we're not irrational enough to be perpetuating them'.
(breathes for a minute)
It makes me sad that the research which focuses on exploring problems such as the ones you've talked about here is not brought to bear because geeks don't tend to talk to anthropologists and anthropologists don't tend to talk loudly about their work to anyone who isn't an anthropologist, because of the danger of it being simplified, misrepresented or otherwise appropriated. I'm in danger of spiralling into my Big Litany of Frustration at how anthropologists are crap at PR, though, which is only very tenuously related to this, so, er, I'll stop.
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Date: 2011-02-22 04:39 pm (UTC)That's, err, not the impression I generally get. I may be wrong in applying natural science and computer science standards to social science research, but the work has never struck me as being of the highest quality. I see people describe two variables as "strongly correlated", and then I see a scatter plot, and see a rather weaker correlation than one I have described in print as "weakly correlated". Often there is some experimental result that is very[1] limited in scope, and very large conclusions are drawn from that result, very often (if memory serves) without the sort of cautiously hedged language which natural scientists are so fond of.
This is not to say that the conclusions are incorrect; merely that it may not be as persuasive to the sorts of pedantic NatScis and CompScis that comprise large parts of geekdom as one might hope. In short, the work may or may not be robust, but it's not clear to me that it is recognisably so, at least not by a geeky audience.
[1] A vague term, there is so much room for disagreement about what such a word could mean.
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Date: 2011-02-23 10:01 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2011-02-22 05:13 pm (UTC)I think... there's a certain defensiveness that I find myself instinctively falling into. I just wish I could be as diplomatic and articulate about the LJ/DW/blogosphere social justice crowd.
On a completely different tangent, very slightly different brain structures - I've read papers on sexually dimorphic regions of the brain, the differences don't seem so slight to me, and the consequences of those differences (if the researchers hypotheses are right) can be really very significant indeed.
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Date: 2011-02-23 10:51 am (UTC)I also absolutely agree that some people who post online about racism and similar issues are obnoxious, but I don't care very much because I kind of accept their basic premises. But if people who disagree with me are obnoxious, it's very easy to fall into the trap of using that as an excuse to dismiss their argument. (For example, I tend to do this with both militant atheists and Evangelical Christians; I assume their arguments are worthless because many proponents are obnoxious in how they express them. But this isn't living up to the standards of honesty I aspire to.)
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Date: 2011-02-22 07:26 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2011-02-23 11:07 am (UTC)One of the things about Stephenson is that he often explicitly articulates, and puts into the mouths of his characters, some of the geek attitudes about sexism and so on that I object to. I don't think he's inherently worse than a lot of other writers, but his info-dump style makes it more obvious. He very often has long rants about how feminism is rubbish because it's not rational and objective; I tend to gloss over those because I don't really care about his opinion on that topic, but I can easily imagine finding them irritating.
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Date: 2011-02-22 08:29 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2011-02-23 11:13 am (UTC)If you're offended by implicitly being referred to as a geek, I can only apologize (again; I'm not doing so well at communication in this thread, I feel). I've come across the term so overwhelmingly more often in a positive sense than a negative one that I'd basically forgotten it was ever an insult. What do you think would be a better term? People who put a high value on certain styles of rational argument, perhaps? (I can't say "rationalists" or "objectivists" because those already mean something else about philosophical positions.) I don't want to say "SF fans" because I think it's a broader group than that.
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Date: 2011-02-23 12:46 pm (UTC)I think much of what you said is probably accurate, but it's a problem that people elevate an essay that has (imho) several cogent insights while not being 100% perfect to the status of holy writ, not a problem with the essay itself.
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Date: 2011-02-23 12:44 am (UTC)What with the what now? I must have missed this, mostly because I hate Less Wrong and try to screen it out of my life as much as possible, but clearly I missed a doozy here. Someone SERIOUSLY claimed that logical errors are a far bigger social problem than racism??
You broke me, LW.
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Date: 2011-02-23 10:16 am (UTC)Out of interest, when you say "superiority over the mundanes" I assume that comes form a specific use in that book? Because in comments you say you don't hear people say it other than ironically. I really like mundane, both the word and the idea. I think the ordinary and everyday is what interests me most, as a sort of theme to my life. When something is described as mundane, I hear that as a positive, or a potential positive. (When I hear banal, I interpret that as a negative, though). But it is in a general use of the word, it's just what you wrote pricked up my ears, if you know what I mean.
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Date: 2011-02-23 11:26 am (UTC)Mundanes is a fairly general phrase for people who are not geeks (also people who are not into historical reenactment and occasionally people who are not into the BDSM culture). I don't quite know where it comes from, but it is an in-group term for people outside the group. Sort of a backlash; if being a geek makes you unpopular, then you deal with that by defining the non-geeks as something worse than unpopular, in this case mundane. I didn't pick up that word from either Among Others or Anathem, though. Interesting that it has positive connotations for you; I'm also interested in ordinary, everyday things, so I can see where that comes from.
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