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So, months ago, [livejournal.com profile] rysmiel asked me to go into detail about what it is about Christianity that I find so off-putting. I've been thinking about this in the intervening months, and I think I'm about at the stage where I can try to write it up.

I am aware that there are a number of Christians (of various flavours) reading this. This isn't a disclaimer, as such; if you want to take offence at this little essay, you're probably entitled to. To a very large extent, I'm shelving all I have learnt in over a decade of serious commitment to Jewish-Christian dialogue, and reverting to my eight-year-old self who got into trouble for complaining to my form teacher, But your religion makes no sense! I do want to point out, though, that I don't mean this in any way as a personal slight against any Christian individual. I am also very well aware that Christianity isn't monolithic, and I do already realize that you could almost certainly point to a Christian who doesn't do or believe any one of the items on the list.

A parable that I rather like: To-what-may-this-be-compared? A traveller comes to a foreign country. He peeks in through the windows of a building, and sees people moving about in a bizarre way. These foreigners are right weird, he concludes, as he goes on his way. Later, a second traveller arrives at the same building. Instead of peeking through the windows, he knocks on the door. The foreigners welcome him in and he finds himself in a dance hall. At the moment I'm being the first traveller; Christianity looks weird to me because I don't hear the music.
  • Translated texts. OK, some Christians don't take the Bible seriously, which is fine. But those who do think that Scripture has authority really confuse me when they don't bother to learn the original languages. I don't get how anyone is prepared to take someone else's word for what a sacred text actually says.

  • Vows. Christians seem to be positively encouraged to make vows, and religious vows at that, all over the place. Vows that are not time-limited, vows that they have no way of being sure that they will be able to keep, vows that are too general so it's not clear what one is vowing. And there seems to be almost an expectation that vows will be broken. The kinds of Christians who accept divorce still make marriage vows, for example. Christians even make vows on behalf of others, which I find a seriously unpleasant concept.

    I know several people who prefer to publicly name themselves oathbreaker rather than live in a way that would be untrue to themselves. I have nothing but admiration for people who are brave enough to make that decision, but it seems to me a very bad thing for a religion to create the kind of situation where this is likely to be a frequent outcome. There are even, apparently, formal religious structures for abjuring / renouncing / annulling vows, which does suggest that the system is geared for vows not to be kept. And as for encouraging children to make vows they are too young to understand, that's simply obscene.

  • Original Sin. Yeah, this is a pretty obvious one. Stereotypically, the Jewish / OT view of God is perceived as being too focussed on Justice (as opposed to Mercy). So maybe I'm living up to the stereotype a bit here, but I'm inclined to ask, Will not the Judge of all the earth do justice?; how can one follow a God who would be so utterly unfair as to blame the whole of humanity for something Adam and Eve did?

  • Faith. Following on a bit from the previous one, I find it offensive that someone can live a completely blameless, even a saintly life, making the world a better place, and yet be condemned because they have wrong ideas about some extremely complicated matters of theology. I have no problem in principle that I don't understand how something like the Trinity is supposed to work, but I do have a problem if this means I'm going to Hell, however wonderful a person I may be. The converse, that someone who is absolutely horrible and vile, but manages all the mental gymnastics to understand and believe all the ins and outs of Christian teaching, can be forgiven, is less problematic; forgiveness is on the whole a good thing. It does seem a bit odd that it's predicated on having exactly the right views about such things as the nature of God, though, especially since I'm kind of inclined to think that anything that can reasonably be called God is probably beyond ordinary human understanding.

  • Proselytizing. This is the big one, for me. However many aspects of Christianity I don't understand, (and there are lots I haven't listed here, because I'm focussing on the ones that really make my skin crawl), in general my attitude would be, well, that's because I'm ignorant, and trying to understand the Divine is so complicated that it's reasonable that different religions are going to come up with different approaches to spirituality. But proselytizing goes completely against that pluralism which is far more fundamental to who I am than any particular position I happen to take on any topic. I don't like proselytizing in general, but religious proselytizing is the very worst kind, it's an attack on something which, for those who are religious, is the very foundation of their life and identity.

    I suppose this does follow from the previous bullet-point; if one believes that theology is all-important, then it makes sense to want to bring as many people as possible to the 'correct' beliefs and thus to salvation. But it's so appallingly, sickeningly arrogant. (I'm not talking about the fact that certain evangelists use really crass methods of trying to get converts, I'm talking about the principle of holding that as an aim at all.) It's really, really hard for me to respect a belief system that is based on such a total lack of respect for not only my beliefs, but for those of anyone who thinks differently from the believer.

    Please feel absolutely free to argue with me, or tell me that I've got the wrong impression of how Christianity actually works, or whatever. Discussion is good.

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Date: 2004-02-07 06:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chickenfeet2003.livejournal.com
Personally I find all religions incomprehensible. For example, how can anyone seriously believe that the Supreme Being cut a special deal with an obscure band of nomads? Doesn't the whole idea of a Chosen People imply massive disrespect for everybody else?

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Date: 2004-02-07 06:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kht.livejournal.com
I suppose every obscure bunch of nomads wants to feel special...

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Date: 2004-02-07 08:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neonchameleon.livejournal.com
How many other bands of nomads from that period are still around?

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Date: 2004-02-07 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chickenfeet2003.livejournal.com
Does Islam not also proselytise and hold that other groups are wrong? Granted they hold Christians and Jews in less contempt than other religions but they are still considered to be outside the House of God.

On the personal God thing, I have seen it from the inside. I was once a practicing Anglican. Ultimately I find the phlosophical and logical contortions necessary to reconcile a loving God with the presence of evil quite bizarre. Certainly in other context than organised religion such beliefs would get one diagnosed as schizophrenic.

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Date: 2004-02-08 08:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chickenfeet2003.livejournal.com
Islam and proselytising

Islamic states traditionally levied extra taxes on non-believers and excluded them from all kinds of public office.which was certainly intended as an incentive to convert. According to the Koran it also a capital offence to become an apostate or to seek to convert Muslims to another faith.

Whereas if you're Christian, you have to accept all that doctrine wholesale or else stop being Christian

I don't think we are comparing apples to apples here. 'Being Jewish' isn't just about religion whereas 'being Christian' is. So you can still claim to be Jewish even if you reject all the religious stuff (my father in law for example).

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Date: 2004-02-09 10:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chickenfeet2003.livejournal.com
Don't get me wrong, I'm noy trying to say Islam is worse/better than Christianity. I do believe that they both believe in proseletising (sp?) and in different times and different places have displayed considerable intolerance for people of other faiths or none.

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Date: 2004-02-09 09:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neonchameleon.livejournal.com
preferable to saying that non-Christians are intrinsically inferior, no matter how exemplary their life

Ask any who say that (or that only Christians can be saved) just why they are putting limits on Divine Grace.

Whereas if you're Christian, you have to accept all that doctrine wholesale or else stop being Christian.

Depends on what you mean by "all that doctrine" and which church. Judaism isn't just a religion, it's a culture as well, and it is hard to say that someone isn't a member of a culture. A better perspective would be to say that they aren't an Orthodox Jew or the like.

'Sides, there have been at least two heretical Anglican/Episcopalian bishops in the last 20 years (and I think it's three). If the Bishop of Durham can claim not to believe in the Resurection...

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Date: 2004-02-24 02:05 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] chess
I mean, if in order to feel any less alienated by Christianity (let alone achieve whatever goal it is that Christians think I should be aiming for) I have to understand these CCCs, which no-one seems to be able to explain to me, what hope is there?

I haven't come across a particular reluctance to try and explain Capitalised Christian Concepts; if you're still interested, give me a list and possibly what your current definitions are, and I'll give it a go.

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From: [personal profile] chess - Date: 2004-03-15 07:26 am (UTC) - Expand

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Date: 2004-02-09 09:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neonchameleon.livejournal.com
[devil's advocate hat on]

Christians, AIUI, think that people who are not part of their group are simply wrong, and their beliefs are worthless. To me, the second attitude is far more disrepectful.

But by virtue of being one of God's chosen people, you automatically have a major part to play. It is * dificult to become one of God's chosen people, whereas almost anyone can become a Christian. Is it more disrespectful to believe that people have smaller parts due to birth or due to choice and that they can fix their choices?

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Date: 2004-02-10 12:12 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] nameandnature
Christians, AIUI, think that people who are not part of their group are simply wrong, and their beliefs are worthless.

Christians who know their NT should know that this is specifically not true of the Jews. Paul seems to say something like "you Gentiles had better not get too uppity". Forgive me if you know this already, I'm not sure how far your knowledge of the NT goes.

I expect that this passage doesn't quite prevent Christians who are keen on evangelism from evangelising Jews, since the previous chapter makes it clear that Paul thinks the Jews of his day have missed the point and need to hear his message (though 10:9 is interesting for just how little theology Paul says Christians do need to be saved). But it chapter 11 is probably useful against uppity Christians :-)

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Date: 2004-02-11 12:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] nameandnature
she ended up doing 'Jews in John's Gospel'. From what I've picked up from her, I get the impression that the topic is fascinating.

John's the odd man out among the 4 gospels in that he doesn't share a common storyline with the others. I've heard him called anti-semitic before, since he tends to attribute negative comments about Jesus to "the Jews" rather than, say, "the Pharisees". I like him for the writing, which I find more numinous than the other gospel writers, thinking of things like John 1 for example.

Non-believers are Wrong?

Date: 2004-10-29 12:00 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Christians, AIUI, think that people who are not part of their group are simply wrong, and their beliefs are worthless.

While this is a generalism, to be sure, I have seen this very often. We have to understand that Christians, like any other self-professed followers of faith, come from a variety of backgrounds, and profess their faith for a variety of reasons. The majority of people don't examine themselves, much less the origins of their faith - they simply like to belong to a group. When we don't examine ourselves, and the complete context of what it is to be human, we are much less likely to appreciate the importance of having compassion for the meaning systems of others. Therefore pluralism, as important a concept as it is for world peace, is not even a concept that can be grasped by the majority of people. So I believe we will see that people of most faiths will come across as "I'm right, and you're wrong". I doubt it is a particularly Christian attribute.

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